“I had a very difficult vaginal delivery that involved tearing and resulted in a difficult postpartum recovery. My partner is ready for penetration sex and I’m a bit freaked out. I want my sex life back, but I don’t know how to start.”
“My boyfriend wants me to perform anal play on him and I’ve never really thought about it, this I’m not super comfortable. I told him ‘no’ for now, and he ended up calling me “uptight”. How do I figure out if it’s something I want to do? And how do I let him down if I decide it’s not for me… without sounding ‘rigid’”.
“I have always had a hypersensitive clitoris and I’ve never enjoyed clitoral play because it’s too uncomfortable and distracts me from enjoying sex. I’m with a new partner and I really want to experience clitoral pleasure….Any tips?”
“I’m a 38-year-old woman and I’ve been married to my wife for 7 years. I’m scheduled to have a hysterectomy in 3.5 months and I’m freaked out on what it will do to my sex life! we already have been struggling with sexual issues over the past 1.5 years. Any advice on how to prevent more issues after surgery?”