{"id":975,"date":"2018-05-06T22:50:45","date_gmt":"2018-05-06T22:50:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.youseelogic.com\/?p=975"},"modified":"2020-07-24T15:51:43","modified_gmt":"2020-07-24T15:51:43","slug":"my-partner-has-a-waaay-lower-libido-than-i-do-and-its-really-disruptive-to-our-relationship-any-advice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/youseelogic.com\/my-partner-has-a-waaay-lower-libido-than-i-do-and-its-really-disruptive-to-our-relationship-any-advice\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;My partner has a waaay lower libido than I do, and its really disruptive to our relationship. Any advice?&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4><strong>Watch episode:<\/strong><\/h4>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 658px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);\" data-instgrm-captioned=\"\" data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/BidMP-iAiH2\/\" data-instgrm-version=\"8\">\n<div style=\"padding: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background: #F8F8F8; line-height: 0; margin-top: 40px; padding: 50% 0; text-align: center; width: 100%;\"><\/div>\n<p style=\"margin: 8px 0 0 0; padding: 0 4px;\"><a style=\"color: #000; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none; word-wrap: break-word;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/BidMP-iAiH2\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">It&#8217;s Bourbon Talez time! Sunday Funday at its finest! ???????? Tonight&#8217;s question got a three-video response because it is the MOST COMMON question I get regarding sex and relationships. This whole week will be dedicated to this issue. &#8220;My partner has a waaay lower libido than I do, and its really disruptive to our relationship. Any advice?&#8221; There are SOOOOO many reasons why this occurs in relationships. So many. The key factor is to make sure you decide what&#8217;s important to you and why. Then you can move forward in figuring out a solution that works for you and your partner(s). Check the videos for my answers. One thing that I must emphasize is therapy. #sextherapy. This can be an actual lifesaver for not just your relationship, but also you. Any added brilliant thoughts? @melaninandmentalhealth @talk.tabu @trswcofhouston @centerforchangewb @justyndsmith @practicalaudacity @sexwithdrjess @hellosw @resparklove @eboniharrisma @pelvichealthsf @enlightenpt @drkanisha @sexuallectual @thevillagebymonet #sexytimelearning #sex #sunday #realtalk #layers #itsnoteasy #dothework #sexualhealth #yesplease #iwantsomemoresir #bourbontalez #youseelogic<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;\">A post shared by <a style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/youseelogic\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> Dr. Uchenna &#8220;UC&#8221; Ossai<\/a> (@youseelogic) on <time style=\"font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px;\" datetime=\"2018-05-07T00:28:40+00:00\">May 6, 2018 at 5:28pm PDT<\/time><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async defer src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>Photo by\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/photos\/IfGftNpTvAw?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText\">Stanley Dai<\/a>\u00a0on\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/search\/photos\/couple?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText\">Unsplash<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Watch episode: It&#8217;s Bourbon Talez time! 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