{"id":760,"date":"2017-12-03T23:44:19","date_gmt":"2017-12-03T23:44:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.youseelogic.com\/?p=760"},"modified":"2020-07-24T15:52:49","modified_gmt":"2020-07-24T15:52:49","slug":"ive-never-had-an-orgasm-through-penetrative-sex-but-i-can-with-clitoral-stimulation-what-gives-how-can-i-fix-this","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/youseelogic.com\/ive-never-had-an-orgasm-through-penetrative-sex-but-i-can-with-clitoral-stimulation-what-gives-how-can-i-fix-this\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;I&#8217;ve never had an orgasm through penetrative sex, but I can with clitoral stimulation. What gives?! 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