Sexual Shame

Woke is the New Sexy™

A curation of articles, bourbon talez, swagger tips and other relevant content developed by or featuring Dr. UC Ossai.

In this section, we focus on the first steps to dismantling sexual shame so we can live our best sexy lives.

Interview Features

How Genital Body Image Impacts Our Sex Life

Bourbon Talez

“I’m a 34-year-old vagina owner and I’m recently single. I’m getting back into the dating pool and wanted to know your thoughts on having sex on the first date.”

“I’m a 25-year-old non-binary person and I avoid and pick fights with my partner to avoid sex. My partner thinks it has to do with my sexual shame; and with further thought, I agree with them. How do I address sexual shame?”

“I’ve gained a few pounds during the Rona quarantine and its made me feel less sexy… any advice on how I can address this?”

“Everytime I have sex, I get excessive lubrication. It’s so, so embarrassing during partnered sex. Any advice on how I can get over this?”

how many people have you slept with

“The guy I’m dating won’t stop asking me to tell him how many people I’ve slept with. It’s a high number, but im not ashamed of it. I just don’t think it’s his business. Any advice?”

“I just started hooking up with this girl who has a very fleshy labia. I paused because I was surprised, she noticed, and it was SUPER awkward. I know I messed up.. big time. What do I do?”

“I’m a plus-sized woman with a fit boyfriend, and I’m having a hard time infusing sexy into our relationship because he usually dates women who are side 0 or 2. Any advice?”

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