Relationships and Communication

Woke is the New Sexy™

A curation of articles, bourbon talez, swagger tips and other relevant content developed by or featuring Dr. UC Ossai.

Grab your popcorn and pour yourself a cocktail. This section is all about sex and relationships!! Dating, marriage, committed partnerships, etc.

Bourbon Talez

How do I approach this 7-month friends-with-benefits situation?

4 Oct 2020

“How do I get past lesbian bed death with my wife?!😳 We have all the intimacy levels…except sex. help!”

27 Sep 2020

“I’m a 28-year-old man and I’m dating a new guy who had a spinal cord injury and uses a wheelchair to get around. I’m ready to take the next step with sex, but I don’t know how to bring the subject up. I have questions, but I don’t want to insult him or put all the burden on educating me on him. Any advice?”

20 Sep 2020

“I’ve been dating this guy who won’t perform oral sex on me. 🙄🤨 When is it too soon or too late to bring up this issue (I kinda like the guy)?

13 Sep 2020

“My long-term partner and I used to have hot, spontaneous sex. But after 2 kiddos and 2 big jobs… that spontaneity and excitement is gone. How do I get that spontaneity back?”

17 Jul 2020

“I recently found out my partner consumes way more porn than I thought. I don’t have a problem with him watching porn, but….when is porn use problematic?”

28 Jun 2020

“I always had a low libido. How do I improve my libido for the long-haul?”

26 Mar 2020

“What do I do when my partner is bad in bed?”

18 Nov 2019

How do I kindly give my partner cues on what I like and don’t like during oral sex?

7 Oct 2019

Sex and Boredom

17 Jun 2019

“I moved in with my partner 2 months ago and we are not having nearly as much sex as we used to. What gives?”

3 Apr 2019

“I was recently propositioned to have a friends with benefits situation, what do I do?”

17 Feb 2019

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Relationships and Communication

Woke is the New Sexy™

How do I approach this 7-month friends-with-benefits situation?

“How do I get past lesbian bed death with my wife?!😳 We have all the intimacy levels…except sex. help!”

“I’ve been dating this guy who won’t perform oral sex on me. 🙄🤨 When is it too soon or too late to bring up this issue (I kinda like the guy)?

“My long-term partner and I used to have hot, spontaneous sex. But after 2 kiddos and 2 big jobs… that spontaneity and excitement is gone. How do I get that spontaneity back?”

“I recently found out my partner consumes way more porn than I thought. I don’t have a problem with him watching porn, but….when is porn use problematic?”

“I always had a low libido. How do I improve my libido for the long-haul?”

“What do I do when my partner is bad in bed?”

How do I kindly give my partner cues on what I like and don’t like during oral sex?

Sex and Boredom

“I moved in with my partner 2 months ago and we are not having nearly as much sex as we used to. What gives?”

“I was recently propositioned to have a friends with benefits situation, what do I do?”

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