“I’m a 29-year-old man and I recently gave my partner respectful and kind feedback about his oral sex skills. Unfortunately, I was met with negativity and it became a while thing. How do we move past it?”

“I’m a 34-year-old vagina owner and I’m recently single. I’m getting back into the dating pool and wanted to know your thoughts on having sex on the first date.”

“My long-term partner and I used to have hot, spontaneous sex. But after 2 kiddos and 2 big jobs… that spontaneity and excitement is gone. How do I get that spontaneity back?”

“I’m a 30-year-old man with premature ejaculation. I’m talking maybe 30 to 40 secs. I recently learned that the pelvic floor can assist with this problem. How can I start?”

“I’m a 25-year-old non-binary person and I avoid and pick fights with my partner to avoid sex. My partner thinks it has to do with my sexual shame; and with further thought, I agree with them. How do I address sexual shame?”

“I’m a 31-year-old Black woman with sexual dysfunction and I’m worried that I’ve internalized the Black female archetype of “superwoman” and it’s impacted my sex life. What do I do?”

“My lady NEVER initiates sex and it’s really getting to me because it makes me feel like she’s not into me. How do I approach her with this with it being “a thing”?”

“I used to have urinary incontinence, but it was fixed with PT. However, I have a persistent fear that I’m going to pee all over my partner during sex, so I avoid sex all together. Any sex tips to improve my libido?”

“Lately there has been a not-so-pleasant smell from my partner’s vagina. I know that vaginas don’t smell like roses 24/7, but it’s a bit challenging to engage in oral sex. I really don’t want to shame her, especially since she’s sensitive about that area smelling. Any advice on how to tell her?”

“Everytime I have sex, I get excessive lubrication. It’s so, so embarrassing during partnered sex. Any advice on how I can get over this?”