“I’m a 33-year-old woman who has yet to have her sexual debut. Like, the most I’ve done is kiss someone. Do you have any advice for my first encounter??”
“I’m a 37-year-old, queer femme, and I’ve always had a fat body and I’ve never felt comfortable being naked in front of my partner. Any thoughts on how to build my sexy and move the needle on this issue?”
“I’m a 25-year-old Korean American ciswomen and I’ve been with my partner for 2 years. Since George Floyd’s death, I’ve done a lot of internal work to figure out how I’ve participated in systemic racism and I feel that I’ve grown a lot in my own racial identity and as a community member. My partner recently asked me to participate in his fantasy where he is dominating me and I play the role of the submissive, Asian princess. 😳 I feel some type of way about it. Am I being overly sensitive or was that just racist?”
“I’m a 30-year-old non-binary vulva owner and I’ve been noticing that I’ve been fantasizing A LOT more about having sex with other people during my sexytime encounter with my partner. 😳 It’s not every time, but it’s enough to have me a bit worried. Is this common? If so, when does fantasizing become problematic?”
“I’m a cisgender woman and I just found out that the guy I’ve been dating for 5 months has faked his orgasm a few times and I feel some type of way about it. So my questions are 1) I thought men faking orgasms was an urban myth, 2) WHY is he faking (or why would cis-dudes fake an orgasm)?”
