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Mindful sex and being a "good" lover - Part 2

Mindful sex and being a “good” lover – Part 2

Mindful sex and being a "good" lover - Part 1

Mindful sex and being a “good” lover – Part 1

How to manage our feelings and desires when our partner has ED

How to manage our feelings and desires when our partner has ED

"I'm a 33-year-old woman who has yet to have her sexual debut. Like, the most I've done is kiss someone. Do you have any advice for my first encounter??"

“I’m a 33-year-old woman who has yet to have her sexual debut. Like, the most I’ve done is kiss someone. Do you have any advice for my first encounter??”

"I'm a 37-year-old, queer femme, and I've always had a fat body and I've never felt comfortable being naked in front of my partner. Any thoughts on how to build my sexy and move the needle on this issue?"

“I’m a 37-year-old, queer femme, and I’ve always had a fat body and I’ve never felt comfortable being naked in front of my partner. Any thoughts on how to build my sexy and move the needle on this issue?”

Sexual Perfectionism

Sexual Perfectionism

Sexual Pain: Part 2

Sexual Pain: Part 2

"I'm a 25-year-old Korean American ciswomen and I've been with my partner for 2 years. Since George Floyd's death, I've done a lot of internal work to figure out how I've participated in systemic racism and I feel that I've grown a lot in my own racial identity and as a community member. My partner recently asked me to participate in his fantasy where he is dominating me and I play the role of the submissive, Asian princess. 😳 I feel some type of way about it. Am I being overly sensitive or was that just racist?"

“I’m a 25-year-old Korean American ciswomen and I’ve been with my partner for 2 years. Since George Floyd’s death, I’ve done a lot of internal work to figure out how I’ve participated in systemic racism and I feel that I’ve grown a lot in my own racial identity and as a community member. My partner recently asked me to participate in his fantasy where he is dominating me and I play the role of the submissive, Asian princess. 😳 I feel some type of way about it. Am I being overly sensitive or was that just racist?”

"I'm a 30-year-old non-binary vulva owner and I've been noticing that I've been fantasizing A LOT more about having sex with other people during my sexytime encounter with my partner. 😳 It's not every time, but it's enough to have me a bit worried. Is this common? If so, when does fantasizing become problematic?"

“I’m a 30-year-old non-binary vulva owner and I’ve been noticing that I’ve been fantasizing A LOT more about having sex with other people during my sexytime encounter with my partner. 😳 It’s not every time, but it’s enough to have me a bit worried. Is this common? If so, when does fantasizing become problematic?”

"I'm a cisgender woman and I just found out that the guy I've been dating for 5 months has faked his orgasm a few times and I feel some type of way about it. So my questions are 1) I thought men faking orgasms was an urban myth, 2) WHY is he faking (or why would cis-dudes fake an orgasm)?"

“I’m a cisgender woman and I just found out that the guy I’ve been dating for 5 months has faked his orgasm a few times and I feel some type of way about it. So my questions are 1) I thought men faking orgasms was an urban myth, 2) WHY is he faking (or why would cis-dudes fake an orgasm)?”

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