“I’m a 42-year-old woman and I’ve never really enjoyed sex. I have a great partner who loves it, and I feel bad because I don’t. You always say to chase my pleasure… but it hasn’t helped. Any advice on how to get pleasure when I never experienced it to begin with?”

“What do I do if I’m worried that my birth control has negatively impacted my libido and orgasm?”

“My wife and I had a ‘sexless’ marriage for years because of her pelvic pain; however, her pain is now no longer an issue, but now I’m struggling with erection issues. Help!”

“How do I get my partner to be more adventurous in the bedroom? “

“My girlfriend and I rarely have simultaneous orgasms, and the one time we did… she seemed to have the best orgasm. Are we supposed to orgasm at the same time? Is that better?”

“I always had a low libido. How do I improve my libido for the long-haul?”

“I am a 30 yo woman, been with my partner for 4 months. Libido is very low, never had a high libido. Should I get on hormones? What do you suggest?”