It’s Bourbon Talez time! This is a complicated one. I have sooo many more thoughts on this, so I added a few below. Here’s tonight’s question, “My partner has gained a lot of weight since we have been together, and I’m no longer attracted to him. We’ve tried dieting and exercise, and nothing helps. What can I do?”. Here are a few things to consider: 1) You like what you like…so don’t feel bad about it. But be kind when communicating your concerns about their weight. 2) Your partner’s physical appearance, though very important, wasn’t the only thing that turned you on in the beginning. Take a trip down memory lane and have a deeper look at those other components, and see if they still remain. 3) Remember, an orgasm is an orgasm. The physical attraction has as much of an impact on your sexual response as the emotional attraction you have for your partner. And this will fluctuate throughout the lifespan of your relationship. 4) If you are committed to your partner, consider talking with a couple’s therapist. #bourbontalez #sundayfunday #sexytimelearning #sexeducation #instadaily #youseelogic A post shared by Dr. Uchenna “UC” Ossai (@youseelogic) on Jan 7, 2018 at 7:56pm PST
It’s Bourbon Talez time! This is a complicated one. I have sooo many more thoughts on this, so I added a few below. Here’s tonight’s question, “My partner has gained a lot of weight since we have been together, and I’m no longer attracted to him. We’ve tried dieting and exercise, and nothing helps. What can I do?”. Here are a few things to consider: 1) You like what you like…so don’t feel bad about it. But be kind when communicating your concerns about their weight. 2) Your partner’s physical appearance, though very important, wasn’t the only thing that turned you on in the beginning. Take a trip down memory lane and have a deeper look at those other components, and see if they still remain. 3) Remember, an orgasm is an orgasm. The physical attraction has as much of an impact on your sexual response as the emotional attraction you have for your partner. And this will fluctuate throughout the lifespan of your relationship. 4) If you are committed to your partner, consider talking with a couple’s therapist. #bourbontalez #sundayfunday #sexytimelearning #sexeducation #instadaily #youseelogic
A post shared by Dr. Uchenna “UC” Ossai (@youseelogic) on Jan 7, 2018 at 7:56pm PST
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