"My boyfriend is struggling with premature ejaculation...I mean, 30 secs is all we get. I'm getting SUPER frustrated because I fear I'm never going to get off and its getting in the way of my pleasure. Help!"

“My boyfriend is struggling with premature ejaculation…I mean, 30 secs is all we get. I’m getting SUPER frustrated because I fear I’m never going to get off and its getting in the way of my pleasure. Help!”

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It’s Bourbon Talez time, homies! Here’s tonight’s question: “My boyfriend is struggling with premature ejaculation…I mean, 30 secs is all we get. I’m getting SUPER frustrated because I fear I’m never going to get off and its getting in the way of my pleasure. Help!” Premature ejaculation (PE) is SUPER common. Current estimates are close to 1 in 4 men. Yup. Its problematic when it becomes a chronic issue; which is primarily driven by psychological (stress, anxiety, etc.) and biological (hypertension, diabetes, prostate, alcohol, etc.) causes. Cardinal rules with PE: 1. No shaming or blaming. Remember, that when you shame your partner it has more to do with your shit than theirs. 2. Understand that this has NOTHING to do with masculinity (remind your partner of that). 3. Check meds. 4. Embrace psychotherapy. 5. Explore your pleasure. Want more? I’m now offering virtual one-on-one sessions! Check out my website and sign up for the mailing list! #slowbutsteady #bekind #menshealth #explore #patience #pleasureinresidence #bourbontalez #sundaynight #youseelogic

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