"I've never had an orgasm through penetrative sex, but I can with clitoral stimulation. What gives?! How can I fix this?"

“I’ve never had an orgasm through penetrative sex, but I can with clitoral stimulation. What gives?! How can I fix this?”

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It’s Bourbon Talez time! Tonight’s episode has everything to do with the elusive vaginal orgasm. Here’s the question: “I’ve never had an orgasm through penetrative sex, but I can with clitoral stimulation. What gives?! How can I fix this?” Check out the video for my answer, but consider the following: 1) Figure out why this is important to you. The experience of the orgasms is far more than its anatomical source…. you feel me? 2) Recognize that a lot of these expectations are rooted in a patriarchal AND heteronormative construct; which is often times void of pleasure centric sex and emphasizes goal-oriented sex… which gets you no where, boo. 3) Celebrate the fact that you can have pleasurable orgasms through clitoral stimulation. That’s fucking awesome… just saying. 4) Know that there is NOTHING wrong with you! #orgasms #womenshealth #menshealth #transhealth #sexualhealth #explore #treatyoself #patriarchyisnotforlovers #getittogether #sexytimelearning #bourbontalez #youseelogic

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