"I'm a 19-year-old guy and my girlfriend makes out with other people when we go out. It bothers me more when she makes out with guys, though. I'm not so comfortable with this thought process. Am I confronting to the patriarchy by thinking and believing this way?"

“I’m a 19-year-old guy and my girlfriend makes out with other people when we go out. It bothers me more when she makes out with guys, though. I’m not so comfortable with this thought process. Am I confronting to the patriarchy by thinking and believing this way?”

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It’s Bourbon Talez time ya’ll! I’m kind of in love with this question! Check it out, “I’m a 19-year-old guy and my girlfriend makes out with other people when we go out. It bothers me more when she makes out with guys, though. I’m not so comfortable with this thought process. Am I confronting to the patriarchy by thinking and believing this way?”. So…. this question gave me life! Mainly because this week has been such a rough one when it comes to reproductive justice and sexual freedom. Check out my additional thoughts below and in my stories: > Taking a second and third look at what’s behind our reactions and feelings within our relationships and sexual encounters is always a good practice to be in > As a cisgender male, step into your privilege with full acceptance and have these conversations among your friend who are less woke. Start modeling this behavior for them. > Figure out your boundaries when it comes to your relationships and then communicate them to your partner. For example, If you don’t like her making out with other people because you are expecting mutual monogamy when it comes to ALL sex acts…. she needs to know that fact before you proceed further and things get messy. . . . #sexualwellness #trueromance #sexeducation #relationships #relationshipgoals #patriarchy #sexed #menshealth #sexytime #croatia #bourbontalez #youseelogic

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“I’m a 19-year-old guy and my girlfriend makes out with other people when we go out. It bothers me more when she makes out with guys, though. I’m not so comfortable with this thought process. Am I confronting to the patriarchy by thinking and believing this way?”

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