"I just started hooking up with this girl who has a very fleshy labia. I paused because I was surprised, she noticed, and it was SUPER awkward. I know I messed up.. big time. What do I do?"

“I just started hooking up with this girl who has a very fleshy labia. I paused because I was surprised, she noticed, and it was SUPER awkward. I know I messed up.. big time. What do I do?”

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It’s Bourbon Talez time, boos! ???????? This one got me a little activated…here goes, “I just started hooking up with this girl who has a very fleshy labia. I paused because I was surprised, she noticed, and it was SUPER awkward. I know I messed up.. big time. What do I do?” Thoughts, ya’ll? A few more thoughts. 1. Body shaming is full on nonsense. No one has the right to make another person feel negatively about their body. If someone you care about does that..set clear boundaries and shut down the noise. If they don’t respect the boundaries, bounce out. 2. Society does a lot to frame what we deem as beautiful… including our genitals. Don’t drink the Koolaid. You’re fly, no matter what. . . . #sunday #bourbontalez #truth #nonsense #sex #SEXTALK #dontbecruel #youseelogic

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