"Everytime I have sex, I get excessive lubrication. It's so, so embarrassing during partnered sex. Any advice on how I can get over this?"

“Everytime I have sex, I get excessive lubrication. It’s so, so embarrassing during partnered sex. Any advice on how I can get over this?”

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It’s Bourbon Talez time ??????! It’s all about the vagina tonight, folks! “Everytime I have sex, I get excessive lubrication. It’s so, so embarrassing during partnered sex. Any advice on how I can get over this??” YAAAASSSSS!! Check my video for the full response, but so many people struggle with this. Mainly because talking about vaginal lubrication during isn’t part of the average sex ed curriculum as kids nor is it something that is discussed at the dinner table. Welp. Welcome to my house for dinner, ya’ll!! ???? Here are some things to keep in mind: 1) Your amount of lubrication is not always the most accurate measure of arousal. 2) Your body responds to what you put in it and what it experiences… whether its what happened during your day or in your childhood. 3) Let your pleasure be your guide… not your lubrication. 4) Everyone goes to the best of their own lubricating drum. So stop comparing and judging yourself. It’s not fair. . . . #mondaynight #sexytime #keepingitreal #sexualwellness #vaginalhealth #truestory #menshealth #nonbinary #womenshealth #transhealth #vaginapower #bourbontalez #youseelogic

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“Lately there has been a not-so-pleasant smell from my partner’s vagina. I know that vaginas don’t smell like roses 24/7, but it’s a bit challenging to engage in oral sex. I really don’t want to shame her, especially since she’s sensitive about that area smelling. Any advice on how to tell her?”

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“Everytime I have sex, I get excessive lubrication. It’s so, so embarrassing during partnered sex. Any advice on how I can get over this?”

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