“How much sex is too much sex?”

My partner prefers 3 to 5 times a week, but I’m fine with once a month or every other month. I never really enjoyed sex… it doesn’t hurt or anything, I’m just not into it. Any advice to improve my sex frequency?

Watch episode:

It’s Bourbon Talez time, y’all! Tonight’s question is an oldie but goodie… it started off with a straight forward inquiry, that ended up taking a different direction. “How much sex is too much sex? My partner prefers 3 to 5 times a week, but I’m fine with once a month or every other month. I never really enjoyed sex… out doesn’t hurt or anything, I’m just not into it. Any advice to improve my sex frequency?” So a few more things… 1) There is no gold standard in terms of how many times a week/month you have sex. The sexual frequency has to be workable between you and your boo(s). 2) It’s only a problematic when the frequency causes stress in your relationship. 3) Remember that your sexual experience is a product of your environment…. whether it’s your body systems (hormones, muscles, etc.), relationships (romantic or professional), emotions/mood, etc. Adjust how you engage in sex depending on how your environment is coming at you that day, week, or season. Part of the pleasure comes from developing that sexual playground. Any thoughts? @enlightenpt @afrosexology_ @quianalarae @pelvichealthsf #pelvicsexy #sexualhealth #sundayfunday #play #knowledgeispower #goldstandard #dontgiveup #instadaily #neworleans #backtoaustin #bourbontalez #youseelogic

A post shared by Dr. Uchenna “UC” Ossai (@youseelogic) on

Photo by Brooke Lark

Subscribe
Notify of
guest
0 Comments
Inline Feedbacks
View all comments
Menu
0
Would love your thoughts, please comment.x
()
x